Ugly Truths or Beautiful Lies

Finally, the week is over. A lot of things happen lately, bad and good.

I really feel pity for some. Before I proceed, let me propose a few questions:

1. Have you ever abandoned by your friends and then be together again when they have trouble?
2. Have you ever been concealed from anything regarding your friend and then suddenly he or she pops out and asks you for help and that's the time you find that what that has been denied is a fact and you have been cheated all along?
3. Have you ever been asked to back off when you are trying to help and the person you want to help ask everyone to help out, and then, the person blames you for not being a friend due to the lack of help?

If your answer is "yes", then a big welcome to join the brotherhood of "bad-weather" friends. I came across this term when I was reading an article. This type of friends is mainly caused by those who have many friends. These people enjoy a large company without any effort while the others have to fight hard to maintain the bonds. For example, when the popular ones hurt the least popular ones, the LPO have to suppress their anger because a single defense can trigger a whole chain of rude words. But, when the PO hurt other PO, the fight can be easily forgiven and the LPO might have to face the end of friendship. Such unfairness cannot be forgiven.

The BWF have the common difference. They are willing to help, tolerate and encourage others. But, once again, this is dismissed as a sign of weakness. I have witness many scenarios recently which I overhear during their conversation. I am still puzzled by the significance of these scenarios.

1. Friend A asked B to accompany her to some place which is immediately denied. When C want to go to the same place as A, B VOLUNTEER to follow. B is not a gay or lesbian and these three are not couples.
2. D acts macho. When D sees E joking around, D says, "Lame ! Do that again and I won't talk to you anymore!"with a true serious tone. E has been supporting D since young and is a loyal companion.
3. F only talk about his matter with several close friends. When G asks, F denies everything to hide the truth. F has to use other friend's name to know the truth.
   

Indeed, those PO may learn the technique to befriend others but the BWF may be the only ones to understand the true meaning of friendship. Sometimes, I pity those who try to advise their friends. A lot I have seen try to act cool and ignore the advice. When trouble comes, they mops over it again. On the other hand, "fair weather" friends seem to be most welcome. If a fight broke out, FWF reconciles faster than BWF even though people know that FWF is insincere. Maybe people just likes to have fun and hear good words and refuse to admit their weaknesses. Some are unable to cope with the changing personalities. A few decide to act MATURE by lessening their speech, treating everything as nothing and deliberately forget everyone to get a good image because they think that their friends are not up to the standard. TO change yourself for sth useless, THERE IS ONE TERM FOR THEM-------- LOSER LOSER LOSER!!!

Recently, I met someone that has such nauseating personality. She acts like she is a boss, so talented and can control everyone. Her extreme pompousness just makes me vomit. She has no sense of respect for her friends and teachers. Aggressive indeed. She rebuke anything that was threw on her and give all the nonsensical reason. I wonder, why somebody like her can even have so much friends?

One of my friend is angry yesterday for the unfair treatment and irresponsible traits of one teacher. Yes, that teacher is well-known for her biased way and the committee body has to accept some useless young leaders just because she likes them. She often says that she has her own reason for choosing them. Yeah, maybe the teacher is just a blind senile freak. Anyway, the friend tells me everything because the other friends try to act cool and are diagnosed with the disease of "pro-club". The evil magician somehow asks the young leaders to do some tasks without consulting the seniors. When the junior fails terribly, the senior was blamed for asking the junior to do it. Come on, the senior doesn't even know about it. Don't feel guilty because of the anger. The powerful Lucifer is also enraged when he is asked to to assist the human. I am not worshiping the Satan. It's just that sometimes unfair treatment can breed revenge and disasters. Also, I would seriously asks the teacher to appoint that junior as the president. You know my meaning, don't you?

My disguise is safe. Nobody suspects me.

Same,
Kiluyer

P.S. Someone is feeling down. Hopes he's okay.